After counseling couples for over 23 years and this being my 60th birthday I’m in a reflective mood.
So I have seen that when we agree to marriage we agree to some conflict. Somewhere in our minds we know we’ve heard this isn’t all hot sex and whispering sweet nothings in each others ear. After the plunge we see that we don’t just don’t agree on all matters and some of these cause conflict.
So what’s the take home…….stop being so hard on yourself and your spouse and find a way to weather the ebbs and tides of conflict and break real with each other. [Read more…]