If we could buy a product that would instantaneously create intimate anticipation, there would be a lot more happy married couples making love at all hours of the day. ( erectile dysfunction meds sometime have a one sided interest surge.)
But anticipation is a magical ingredient in love making and in life. The car or satisfaction over getting it……. is never quite as good without the anticipation. Couples who succeed in manufacturing their special brand of anticipation have more romantic encounters with each other. Couples who don’t are confronted by enough sexual stimuli out there in life or right on the boob tube or cyber world to anticipate and consummate sexual encounters for one. Others wait for the special occasions or vacation sex that for some appears enough.
Please you be the judge of what you want… what your getting or not. Consider a collaboration…… a two is better than one proposition to put together some kind of built in anticipation to trigger an intimate encounter with each other. Hey go for it if you both want to go all the way but it doesn’t always have to end in the big event. Just try to put something together that creates some anticipation and fulfills a bit of both your needs. Something that works for you both.
Then lay back, cuddle up and get back to life truly enhanced.
Try imagining a few months of that as it wouldn’t be to hard to imagine it improving other aspects of your life.
So what do you two want? Try to arrange the variables of your marriage even a little to prioritize and serve up some anticipatory intimate moments of your unique relationship infused with your flavors and preferences.
Break ground on your private intimate moments factory as your product yield will give you years of ecstasy and pleasure.
Encourage and value your input.